Taking
A Chance
Something
we always try to do is win. We see everything as a competition because in
reality, everything is a competition. We are being tested through everything we
do, everything we act on, and every decision we make. However, when it comes to
relationships and finding someone we want to be with, people choose to make the
competition between one another. When things go wrong, each partner wants to
‘play hard to get’ and they each want to make the other jealous. Our world
thrives off jealousy. If you ask someone what they are most self-conscious
about, many will say their appearance or what others think of them. Therefore,
when one partner in a relationship plays hard to get, the other will want that
partner even more. Another thing; people want to take time off and want to wait
and see where things go. The average person will want to wait and see if they
like a person and then come back to them. With trust and knowing that you are
attracted to someone both physically and emotionally, why wait? If you like
someone, don’t play the ‘game’ of playing hard to get or trying to make the
other partner feel jealous because you are talking to other people. The goal is
not to win a relationship. Striving to win a relationship is the same as
striving to get A’s, but not striving to learn a single thing in school. The
goal of a relationship is beyond the label of a relationship status.
It
is something difficult to grasp, but what makes us so attracted to someone?
There are so many people in this world and so many people that would be open to
a relationship with us, but we choose one. We choose the one that makes us
happy. The one that makes us feel like we are headed in the right direction.
The one that will do anything for us, at whatever time. When we meet someone we
like, we know it. When we have a number of people interested in us and we turn
them away without hesitation, we know at that very moment we have someone
special. And sometimes the perfect relationship we thought we had turns to
rubbish, but other times it turns into gold. We are in a world where we must
learn. We are in a world where we must take chances and risk everything for one
thing. We are in a world where our lives will be perfect one second and at rock
bottom the next. There is no holding back for me and there is nothing I will give
up on when I am motivated. In this world, there is too much competition to sit
back and wait for everything to come to you. The average will wait for what
comes to them. Waiting is not wrong, but patience has a limit. You cannot wait
forever because then your time runs out. I believe in chasing what is on your
mind. If you cannot go a day without thinking about someone, that person
matters to you.
I
will never know what is right or what is wrong unless I try. Unless I try, I
will never learn. Unless I mess up, I will never grow. If I never grow, I will
never move forward. If I never move forward, I will always be average. If I am
average, I will never be a leader. If I am not a leader, I will never be
successful. If I am never successful, I will never make an impact in this
world. If I never make an impact in this world, I will have failed.
When
the time is right, go for it. When the time is wrong, figure out when the time
will be right. People will not always understand your reasoning and intentions,
but your goal is to teach them why. Through your words you must explain to them. Through your actions you must prove to them. Show someone why you care about them and if
they do not see it, keep trying. If they still cannot see how much you care, go
forth with your life and let them choose the direction in which they want to
go. Life is too short to be dwelled on. Wake up each day giving thanks to The Lord
and wake up every morning with the intentions of helping the people around you. The Lord has a plan for us all and every second is a learning second. We are living the life which we are learning and there is never a second that goes by when The Lord is not with us. Have Faith that it will all work out.
Austin Baker
Twitter/Instagram: @ABakerPresident
DreamsDriveDetermination@gmail.com
Austin.Baker25@yahoo.com
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